Here is a picture of Mikey and I playing in the volleyball tournament at
Here is a picture of Anna, Sir Lancelot, and I while we were eating our delicious snowballs after a long day of pulling weeds. This kid was amazing!
I have officially been here for three weeks now and over that time I’ve come to recognize some distinct cultural differences between this city and
Another cultural difference I have noticed is that some women wear curlers in their hair around town. The interns and I were shopping in the grocery store and there was an African American lady wearing like 30 aqua blue curlers! It cracked me up for sure. Also, some people down here tag their cars with big brand name logos. One would assume that the owner was getting sponsored to drive around the car, but Mikey informed me that they just do it to get looks – so that people pay attention to their hot ride. For instance, we saw someone driving a new orange Ford Mustang with the Cheetos logo painted all over his car. To me it just looked goofy but I guess it’s a big deal down here. Another thing that is different from
Some of the food down here is of course another big change for me – a pleasant one to be sure. My favorites thus far have been jumbalaya – a spicy dish with chicken, sausage, rice, garlic, and tomatoes; shrimp Po Boy’s – a sub sandwich loaded with fried shrimp, lettuce, tomatoes, and tartar sauce; mufalattas – an amazing sub sandwich with ham and other meats and a thin layer of an olive and onion sauce on top; snowballs – a snow cone on steroids that is served in a styrofoam cup and is stuffed with vanilla ice cream that is a taste of heaven on any hot humid day (my flavor of choice is the wedding cake and strawberry combo); and of course authentic sweet tea which was served with jumbalaya when the interns and I went over to an elderly couples’ house for dinner awhile back. My next goal is to get my hands on some crawfish before the season ends. Finally, I must say the fast food customer service down here is subpar – one truly understands “
This week we have had our only middle school work team of the summer here from
Then there was Lance. This scrawny soon to be seventh grader happens to be the most attention-needy child I’ve ever seen. There are many stories to tell but I’ll limit myself to two. On Monday, when we were pulling weeds, Lance comes up to me ten minutes after we have started working with a bottle of sunscreen in his hands and in an innocent and sincere voice asks “Hey could you put some lotion on my legs for me?”. Dumbfounded, I paused for a few seconds wanting to make sure I fully understood what had just happened – a middle school aged boy just asked me for assistance applying sunscreen to his legs. I mean if we were at the beach and he needed it on his back or something I would understand. But his legs? Strange. Anyways, I held back a laugh, suggested that he sit down on the curb and put it on himself (I’m that mean I know), and Anna, my fellow intern who had overheard his request, proceeded to lather up his legs as he helplessly stood amongst the weeds. A second “Lance moment” happened Wednesday morning in Fellowship Hall when I was telling the team what we would be doing that morning. I was warning them about the poison ivy that we would run into in
Finally, another big event that happened this week was Mikey got bit on his right calf by a poisonous Brown Recluse spider last Friday. Initially he thought it was just a large bug bite, but then the pain and swelling came. He waited two days hoping the swelling would go down but after limping around on Monday morning at work, he got to a point where he couldn’t even walk and had to sit in the truck the rest of the afternoon. When we got back to the church, Mikey ran into Sam Thompson (the father of the boys I am living with) who was working on the church. Sam happens to be a registered nurse. Sam told him he needed to be in the hospital yesterday and quickly took Mikey over to our house where he got a sterilized safety pin and tweezers and popped a hole in the epicenter of the bulging bite. I’ll spare you the details of this painful purging but basically a lot of poisonous pus was removed as Mikey let out multiple yelps of discomfort. Afterwards he said that this hurt more than the multiple times he had dislocated his knee playing soccer. Ouch! While this little operation did help the swelling go down initially, Mikey woke up the next morning and couldn’t walk. He ended up going to the doctor who gave him a bunch of shots and antibiotics and told him to stay off of his leg for the next three days. So Mikey’s a little under the weather to say the least, though on Thursday he was feeling much better. He goes to see the doctor again tomorrow, and our hope is that he will be able to accompany us to
Oh yah, I forgot to mention we’re going to
I’ll update more after our adventure in the
While this internship has me working a crazy amount of hours – 55-60 most weeks – we thankfully get the entire week of the 4th of July off and also enjoy a few long weekends. This past weekend (June 13-15) happened to be one of those long weekends. Our team from
To refresh your memory, I was the kid who played indoor volleyball 3-4 times a week during my sophomore year and spent all last summer networking my way up the ladder at Alki Beach and Golden Gardens by playing 5-6 days a week after work. This meant that I was playing oh, around 25 hours a week! Yet as far as volleyball was concerned, the time invested and dedication to the sport did pay off in regards to the fact that I won two tournaments at Alki Beach, and towards the end of the summer was playing with the most elite beach volleyball players in Seattle over at guys’ houses who had spent around $30,000 to put sand courts in their backyards.
Throughout last summer I had multiple friends confront me with questions like “Kyle, do you think you should be playing this much volleyball?” or “Kyle, where are you serving the body of Christ?” Each time I would confidently explain to them that I had a “ministry of presence” on the volleyball court which in some respects was partially true, (I did have some discussions about my faith, Jesus, the Bible, etc.) but the fact of the matter was that I had taken volleyball, something morally neutral, and made it an enormous idol in my life. I had taken a good thing and made it an Ultimate thing. I didn’t fully come to grips with this until Steve Sakanashi, with the help of a couple of sermons from Matt Chandler (!), ended up tearing me apart with Scripture (For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow – Hebrews 4:12) one night early last Fall after I had told Steve my plans to play 3-4 times a weeks with the beach players. One of the big things Steve said was that in the story of Abraham and Isaac, I was like Abraham and Isaac was like volleyball (bear with me with the simile), and just like Abraham was willing to sacrifice to follow God, I must lay down volleyball. So make a long story short, the Holy Spirit convicted the heck out of me and I ended up surrendering volleyball to God by stepping out in faith and trusting that He would have something better for me that would bring Him glory (as opposed to me), or He would give the sport back to me. In doing so I had the most amazing nine months of spiritual growth ever and ended up pursuing this
So, now jumping back to last Friday when I asked Mikey if we could go check out the beach the next day, it turned out that there just so happened to be a doubles tournament going on at 4pm on Saturday afternoon that he wanted to sign up for (he has played a little indoor and outdoor 4’s and 6’s but not a lot of doubles). Now initially I hesitated because I hadn’t played in nine months and I was a little nervous about falling back into idolatry. But then I remembered Steve’s words about surrendering volleyball to God and stepping out in faith and trusting that He would have something better for me that would bring Him glory, or He would give it back. And, while I didn’t want to jump to conclusions, I felt like one day of volleyball wouldn’t hurt (after all I was making this decision on my birthday, Friday the 13th!). So Mike and I went to the beach to sign up on Friday night, and since I had never been there before I didn’t know what to expect. When we got there I was immediately blown away! It turned out being a volleyball complex with 22 courts that had lights so that you can play at night, and the best part about it was that it was free to the public. Plus the complex had beautiful imported sand, was protected from the wind, and the nets were always up (in
Anyways, Mike and I showed up on Saturday about an hour before the tournament started and I used the time to coach him on a bunch of tips I had gathered from last summer (I actually was a true student of the game and had a few pages of “tips and techniques” I had learned saved on my computer). There were 8 teams in our division and we played 3 games to 25 in the humid weather. We won all three – one was a blow out and the other two were within 5 points. Then we played in the semi-final and fought back from an 11-16 deficit to win 25-20. By this time the sun had gone down and we played for the championship under the lights which was a match – best two out of three. We won the first game by 4 and the second by about 10! As prizes we both got our choice of board shorts, shirts or a $45 King of the Beach volleyball. Mikey picked a shirt and I of course had to go for the ball (this was ironic because I really debated whether or not to bring a ball from home down here when I flew in, and had decided against it).
So I’ve written all of the above because I believe that I have really experienced the faithfulness of God in this area of my life. Volleyball to me was Everything and it was becoming more of a lifestyle than a fun pastime. At the end of last summer I was already worried about how I would be able to get an internship this summer that would enable me to get to the beach by 4pm each day so I could meet my 25 hour a week quota. But instead of worrying about that, I stopped playing altogether and chose to pursue Christ and His will for my life, which led me to take an internship thousands of miles away from the only place I thought I would be able to play this summer. To my surprise, I have found myself living a 10 minute drive away from the largest lit beach volleyball complex in the
Our first church work-team from
“Remember your purpose and vision – look for Jesus in the eyes of the people you are serving – look at those people and remember what Jesus says in Matthew 25:34-40 –
34"Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.' 37"Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?' 40"The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'
Remember this or you will lose sight of what you are serving for and it will be a long, hot, sweaty summer. Also, learn to love people. Learn to love each team. It will be hard. There will be teams that will want nothing to do with you but you still have to work with them. Learn to love them regardless of how they treat you.”
Grant’s words hit home, and Jesus’ message in Matthew will stick with me throughout the remainder of my time here. Apart from getting some sound advice, I was also really trying to hone my
Finally, I must say the thunder and lightning storms are crazy here. I was attempting to sleep in on Sunday morning before church, but was rudely interrupted well before my alarm was supposed to go off by an eruption of thunder that literally sounded like a bomb had just exploded a block away. I rolled over to look towards the two windows in my room which are about 5 feet from my bed. The blinds over the windows prevent me from seeing anything outside, and only let a couple of slivers of light in. When the lightning hit however, it was like a camera flash had somehow dispersed and slipped its way through the 3-4 millimeter slivers to light up my room. Three times I began to count to see how far away it was, and three times I went “one thous…” BOOM! I couldn’t even count a full second before the explosions came and I felt like our neighborhood was being bombed. So much for sleeping in on my Sabbath!